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    修整心態

    發表時間:2019年05月13 作者:梁衛山點擊:429次 收藏此文

     

                修整心態

                 梁衛山

    我們今人就應該隨時隨地地審視自己,調整步伐,修整心態,勇于對自己進行大膽的修枝修葉,只有對自我勇敢的修枝修葉,家庭的盆景才會越長越好越靚麗。

    修整心態,才能更好的生活,也才能更好的生活。現實生活中有個母親,在只能生獨生子女的年代,只生了一個女兒,可生兒養老的思想作祟,就把女兒當兒子來養。發型,衣著,舉止都男性化,外人根本看不出來是個女兒。長期這樣,女孩的心態也是男性化的,一家人都不覺得怪異。直到女兒考上大學,同性戀傾向十分嚴重,已經影響到別人和自己的學習與生活了,大學開除了這個女生。回家來的女兒理所當然地認為自己就是個男生!一家人才知道問題的嚴重性,把女兒送醫院就醫卻是無用。

    于是一家人就突然之間站到社會的一面,逼著女兒消除男性化的一切衣著舉止,這當然很難,一家人整天都在吵鬧、慪氣,一家人也在痛苦中掙扎。最后女兒抗議威脅是不是我完了,你們才能終止這無休止的威逼、吵鬧、不消停?!這樣的抗議和威脅,往往只能換來幾天的安寧,沒過多久新一輪的爭吵又開始了。這位母親看著這樣威逼女兒無果后,有一天終于靜下心來,修整心態,以前所未有的平和心態,坐下來與家人好好地討論了一天,于是每個人也都靜下心來,調整了心態,都對在女孩男性化事兒中所犯下的錯誤做了誠懇的道歉,因為他們都覺得生命可貴,親情可貴,他們都愿意為此努力,他們最后都承認,女孩男性化的情況也許永遠都不會得到改觀,他們不再逼迫女孩違心改變自己,她可以在不影響他人的情況下,按自己喜歡的方式生活。

    這次誠懇的交談后,一直頹廢、自暴自棄的女孩也有了改觀,她開始調整步伐、修整心態、勇于對自己進行大膽的修枝修葉了!把自己一直當成男孩的她,通過自學考試拿到了本科文憑后,在事業單位找到一份令全家人都滿意的工作,當然了女孩還是一身男孩裝束,這并不重要。所以啊,我們要學會為自己生活的盆景修枝剪葉,甚至修心修根,才修除不利因素,使生活走上幸福快樂的軌道。大家修整了自己的心態,有了寬容,有了關愛,生活也就充滿了陽光,充滿了歡樂了。


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